Due to my main goal this was an easy topic for me to discuses. My main goal of my avatars was to see who got hit on more and what people thought of my two avatars. I wanted to see who would get more attention my sexy avatar kittycatt18 or my more conservative avatar kaydub18. I have lots of stories to tell but today’s hit me hard. I was shocked and disturbed by my findings today.
Today I decided to play with my avatar kittycatt18. Remember she is my sexier, scandalous character. I had several men avatars come up to me and ask my age and try and start conversation. When they would ask me if I had a boyfriend I would respond “No, I have a girlfriend.” I gave this response to 10 male avatars. Who claimed to be between the ages of 15-17 Wow, did they get excited. Most of the boys would not leave me alone after that, which is ironic because my avatar was into girls not boys, but yet it was the response I was waiting for. They got excited because they fit into the stereotype of men who think it’s hot when a girl likes another girl. I believe men think that when a girl is a lesbian, they think its code for bisexual. They do not get that it’s possible for a girl not to like a man and to only be into women. The male avatars got so excited that I see them telling other people that I was a lesbian and then five more people came up to me. It was ridiculous how excited they all got. One of the avatars even said “prove it” another said “can I watch” one said to his friend “dude, there’s a real lesbian in the room”. I was very disturbed that these young males were saying these things to me. Here were these guys ages 15-17 saying these dirty things to me, what are kids learning these days!!! Obviously, they are not learning the right information. I got so mad I even wrote out what a lesbian meant in case they didn’t know but that just encouraged them on even more. They did not respect my sexuality; they thought it was a joke.
I realize this is a make believe world but these were not make believe ideologies that these boys had about my sexuality. They are only 15-17 but are these going to be the same gross men in 10 years that can’t wait to see girl on girl action in a bar?
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